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A "healthy" spat?

Who hasn't had a spat with a spouse or partner? How that plays out, and the response to it, may well have a bearing on one's health a new study has revealed.

The NY Times reports:

"Arguing is an inevitable part of married life. But now researchers are putting the marital spat under the microscope to see if the way you fight with your spouse can affect your health.

Recent studies show that how often couples fight or what they fight about usually doesn’t matter. Instead, it’s the nuanced interactions between men and women, and how they react to and resolve conflict, that appear to make a meaningful difference in the health of the marriage and the health of the couple.

A study of nearly 4,000 men and women from Framingham, Mass., asked whether they typically vented their feelings or kept quiet in arguments with their spouse. Notably, 32 percent of the men and 23 percent of the women said they typically bottled up their feelings during a marital spat."

Read the full piece here, including a tabulation, as per male and female, why couples fight.

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